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There comes a point in every person's life where keeping everything inside and hidden from the world becomes overwhelming and draining. This is why I began this blog. I made this tumblr because I really just want to help people. I wan't to become a social worker after i'm finished high school so listening to people's problems and helping them through it, is really a passion of mine. I think that I give pretty good advice, and my friends agree. NEED ADVICE? Ask me anything on: love,school,friends,sex,life,fashion, relationships,family,work ANYTHING I'M HERE FOR YOU. You've got questions... & I've got answers to anything you're having problems with. don't stress yourself over it..just send me a message, i'll post it and give you the best advice I could give you. Don't be afraid to ask!I won't give you what you SHOULD hear, I'll give you the advice that you NEED and WANT to hear. I'll always be here for you, when no one else seems to care. I'll hear you out when you don't want anyone finding out.
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November 21, 2011 0 notes
Anonymous asked: hey(: first i want to say that i loove you do this for people. thank you<3 secondd ..i need some advice as welll! hahaa; so theres this guy i met in 7th grade, now we're both in 9th and i really do like him a lottt. we never dated but we liked eachother before 8th grade started. i'm not really sure what went wrong, but we were really close friends and talked and texted a ton, and he'd always flirt with me. we had two classes together and would see eachother everyday. then at the begining of wint

Awh, no problem! I love helping people :)
You should really just ask him to hang out one day and don’t go and do the direct routine saying “I like you” but give some hints. Smile alot, stare right into his eyes, laugh at everything he says and try to ask him “How would you tell a girl you liked her if you were to shy”? (: 
Just be cool about it!

GoodLuck, 
XOXOX- The Teen Advisor. 
 

November 21, 2011 2 notes
Anonymous asked: How do you forget about someone?

honestly, the only way to forget someone is to not think about them, you just have to remember that, that person is no longer in your life and you have to convince your self you don’t want them to be apart of your life. Just keep surrounding yourself with friends and family this will keep your mind off of who ever your trying to forget!


Good Luck,
XOXO-The Teen Advisor.

November 21, 2011 0 notes
Anonymous asked: I have these two friends that I end up arguing with a lot. A few weeks ago they decided they hated me and that we shouldn't be friends anymore, but a few days later they decided to try again. No matter how many times they tell me things are fine I still have this feeling that one of them doesn't really like me. What should I do? :/

Ah! That happens to me all the time with my best friend. What I would do if I were you, just talk to her when nobody is around. If shes hanging out different friends, just say you need to talk to her and pull her aside and ask why shes being like that. She could just be going through one of those phases, but if she’s not trying in your friendship, why should you? Soon she will relize that she left someone important in her life and you will be moved on and she will be the one suffering. But, yeah just talk to her. Tell her how you feel and ask her to maybe spend more time with you? Ask her to hangout after school or something.


Good Luck,
XOXO-The Teen Advisor.

November 21, 2011 0 notes
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September 04, 2011 0 notes
icarebutamrestless asked: how old are you?
thats nice of you that you did this blog to hlep people:)

I can’t say my age sorry. I like to keep my identity hidden. You never know i might be someone famous… i might be your next door neighbour, but thank you so much! I love helping people :)

Xoxo- The Teen Advisor.

September 04, 2011 0 notes
Anonymous asked: Okay, so it's kind of a long story but I need to get all of this out so here it goes. I'm in love with my best guy friend, we dated a couple years ago but then he started going to a different school so we broke up that summer. But, we still talk all the time and he's all I think about. And he's told me he feels the same way and he swears he's going to marry me when we're older. But now, he has a girlfriend and I moved recently two hours away from him and it completely sucks. We still talk all the time but it's like everytime I see pictures of them or think about them together I fall apart inside. He's perfect in my eyes, I just don't know what to do. Should I move on?

Well it’s cute that you guys even dated because usually “best friends” espically when it’s a guy and a girl you guys really never date because your scared to break what you guys have. The fact that you guys still talk alot and he tells your everything, means he really does still care for you but not in that way. My advice for you is that you MOVE ON it might be hard but their are so many other guys in your city/town and i bet you can find someone better. You should be glad that even though you guys broke up and are so far from eachother he still talks to you alot so be grateful of that.

Good Luck,
XOXO-The Teen Advisor.

September 04, 2011 0 notes
Anonymous asked: Hi, LOVE your blog! It helps me get through my crazy teenage years :) keep up the awesome work! Anyhows, there's this guy named Ron and I just met him two months ago from my summer job. He's great! Funny, cute, nice, and really unique. Anyhows, I have been noticing that I've been staring at him (not in a creepy way) and whenever I'm with him I get butterflies in my stomach, and whenever I see another girl talking to him I get stupidly jealous and I HATE that feeling. Anyhows, I need to let it out, and also i need advice. (duh :P) I'm confused. Do i like him? or is it i just find him attractive? If I would/could i would go for him...but it's just I'm so unsure of my feelings. Help? =S

Well it seems like you do have feelings for him. You find him attractive.. yes but you like him also. The fact that you get jealous when another girl talks to him and the fact that you get butterflies when you talk to him is a sign. If you still have contact with him - you should ask him for his number or like find a cute way to give him yours and start texting after you move from that step you should insist you guys go out some where and move on from there. Good Luck,

XOXO- The Teen Advisor.

September 04, 2011 0 notes
Anonymous asked: i have a boyfriend, and we just started dating. we haven't even gone out for a whole week, yet. today i was over his house, and he tried to have sex with me. i kept pushing him away, because i didn't feel comfortable at all and i'm not ready for that yet. btw, i'm 16. anyway, then he just got mad and he told me that he's not the guy for me, and i'm too shy. i'm not shy, i just don't feel comfortable doing things like that, especially since we just started dating and it's way too soon. now, he's acting kind of weird with me, so i'm guessing he was just in it for the sex. i'm so confused right now :/

Guys at that age are really mostly just into realtionship for sex and to play around. It’s pretty obvious that he was just in it for that because if he really like you he wouldn’t of pushed you to do it. He would of said something like “it’s okay i’ll wait till your ready”. A guy that cares about you wouldn’t push you into doing something you don’t want to do. My advice to you is to move on, and keep him as a friend but not a boyfriend. Someone that pushes you to do something you don’t want to do is not worth being in your life remember that next time your pushed to do something. Don’t be forced to do it because you wan’t him to stay with you because bad things can come from just having sex once espically if your not going to ejoy it. Good Luck.

XOXO- The Teen Advisor.

September 04, 2011 0 notes
Anonymous asked: in no way am i trying to be rude.. but could u try to update more often. don't forget about us. It's disappointing ya know. i understand if you're busy. trust me. but yeah... don't forget the little people lol

I know, i’m sorry! I don’t forget about you guys! How could i forget, you guys are all amazing. I just been very very very busy with my personal life + it’s summer and all- i like going out and partying and being with my friends. School coming soon- so i’ll be updating way more now<3.

XOXO-The Teen Advisor.

September 04, 2011 0 notes
Anonymous asked: Sooo I'm 14 going on 15. This guy and me were really close and we did stuff, we though i was pregnant but turned out i wasn't. He told me he never liked a girl as much as me but he was going into highschool.. and i was only going into 8th. He told me about a month ago that if we weren't so young he wouldve loved to have a kid with me. He says we're bestfriends and tells me everything.. but he's talking to this girl...I just need to know should I wait a little and see if things change when I get to highschool? We start next week.. or should I just forget it?

First of all. You need to realize that doing “things” at your age .. is not good. Why would you want to have kids.. when your only 13/14 thats crazy. I’m not one to judge but you have so much ahead of you, so many things you can do and be in your life. Why would you want children so early. The advice i have to you is that you should really just talk to him and be friends with him still but keep living your life. In high school you meet so many more guys that you can have realtionships with. Espically since he has a girlfriend or “Girl” you shouldn’t wait, just do you! Good Luck.

XOXO-The Teen Advisor.